Reflecting on 2012

As the year wraps down to an end, it is important that we all look back and reflect on what we did and did not do in 2012.  By identifying what we did and didn’t do, it makes it easier for us all to set our goals for 2013.  Did you accomplish all of the goals you set for yourself?  Did you exceed your own expectations?  Did you fall short of your goals?  If you did fall short, why?   Goals are crucial to both your career, and your personal life.

Studies have shown that individuals who travel and take some much needed down time are not only more productive in their given professions, but have much more fulfilling personal lives as well.  Travel can also fulfill needs and dreams that you may have.   We’ve all heard the phrase “what is on your bucket list?” – Those are your dreams!  Do you have a need to help others or to expand your knowledge of lands far and wide?  You can travel to various countries and give back through volunteerism or travel and spend time learning about local cultures.  Perhaps your needs are more simple – you just need a break from the chaos of everyday life!  You don’t necessarily need extensive travel for that – sometimes a weekend getaway for 2 is just what you need.  

I read an article earlier this year on abcnews.com that stated Americans work more than anyone in the industrialized world and that Americans take less vacation days, work longer hours, and retire later in life.  We have to start finding a balance for ourselves in this crazy world we live in!  If you have the vacation time, you need to take it!  Time away from work and / or obligations is the key to helping you maintain balance in your life.  By maintaining balance, you will find that you become more efficient and effective, accomplishing more and hopefully meeting or exceeding your goals.

As a Couples Travel Concierge, one of my favorite types of travel to book is honeymoons!  Honeymoon couples are excited about the life ahead of them and can’t wait to start their journey together.  One thing they don’t realize is the stress involved in planning a wedding!  The honeymoon is the “fun part” of the planning and I make it stress free for them – it is something to look forward to during the “Bridezilla” moments of wedding stress.  The honeymoon is the time they decompress and truly start to enjoy their life together as a couple.  Other couples should look at planning travel in the same manner!  Have you been working on a big project at work that has taken months to complete?  A great way to unwind after completion is to take that trip with your spouse and re-connect.  Maybe it isn’t a big project, but just crazy, busy, chaotic lifestyles – you need to take time to get away and re-connect with your spouse, or your family if that is the case.

Remember, taking the time to rejuvenate and re-connect can make such a huge difference in your life – both professionally and personally. 

So as this year comes to an end – look back and honestly ask yourself – what did you do?  What did you not do?